<counselling & guidance>

Today, in the Counselling & Guidance Class, the lecturer taught my

class about the role & the characteristics of counsellor..

I've been in many counselling sessions in my high school for many reasons...

High school really sucks! Really!! I've gone through so many bad experience in my high school...

Let me define what it means by 'COUNSELLING'..a truly 'COUNSELLING'..

Counselling denotes a professional relationship which includes the sequence of

interaction between a trained counsellor and a client.

The sequence of interaction:

>Relationship establishment

>Problem identification

>Problem solution & remediation

>Action & termination

(Relationship establishment)

Now, based on my own experience being in the counsellor's room...

Okay..Firstly, I've been sent to the counselling because I had a fight with a student, same age of mine..So, I individually been sent to the counselling..

I've known the counsellor from primary till secondary..The teacher been transmitted to the same secondary school at the same time I enrol at that particular school..Well, we have a good relationship all this while and we respect each other..

(Problem identification & exploration)

At the moment I step in the counsellor's room, the teacher was sitting on the sofa, looking at me, smiled at me and gave me a warm welcome..I smiled back to her and we greet each other..she asked me to have a seat and we start to have the conversation about how am I doing, how's my study, and what so ever.....

Then, she started to asked me about what's my problem, why am I fighting with a student and so on..Because of my trust upon her and because we known each ather so well, I started to tell her most all of the story but after I told her what the student I'm fighting to do to me, then all of the sudden she asked me,"Do that girl actually wears tudung when she go out?".

Then I was kind of shocked! Ha?! Is the question relates to the situation?? Then she asked me,"Do you wear tudung when you go out?".

"I wear, but she doesn't. Why?".I answered.

Then she kept silence and I can see she's like wondering something and kind of thinking about something to put the blame on me. Then she start to tell me her story and then, I was like the counsellor and she's the client. I listen to her own story problems and I realize that the girl that I had a fight with is her friends daughter. Then, whatever I've told her, she objected and tell me her dissagreement. She told me that girl will never do this and she started to put down on me.

She asked me to apologize to her and promise not to do that mistake again, bla bla bla......

Now, the situation get tense and I stop telling her the rest of the story. Full Stop.

For (Problem solution & remediation) and (Action & termination) I'm not sure in which part was it. Haha!! Moral of the story, I obtain rubbish, regret and nonsense from that session. Counselling is sucks just like the school. This only happen at my high school, and not to worry, this case only happen in a few schools to special students only. For normal students and ordinary schools, this situation will not happen okay..

~THE END~